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		<title>By: Ask and Listen &#124; The Search for Effective Leadership</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ask and Listen &#124; The Search for Effective Leadership</dc:creator>
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		<description>[...] a recent post from Guy Harris, he shares a story of witnessing two people in a conflict analyzing each others&#8217; intentions [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Conflict Resolution Techniques: Question Your Assumptions &#124; Guy Harris: The Recovering Engineer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Conflict Resolution Techniques: Question Your Assumptions &#124; Guy Harris: The Recovering Engineer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jun 2010 01:34:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] another post, I shared an observation I made about an interchange where one person based their entire interaction with another person on [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Guy Harris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Mar 2010 03:02:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lori,

Thanks for stopping by and leaving your comment. 

Excellent point about creating a &quot;why&quot; that puts the other person in a good light. Great input!</description>
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<p>Thanks for stopping by and leaving your comment. </p>
<p>Excellent point about creating a &#8220;why&#8221; that puts the other person in a good light. Great input!</p>
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		<title>By: Lori W</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lori W</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Mar 2010 01:46:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Everytime you ASSUME someone&#039;s intention, you are just making up a story about the &quot;WHY&quot;.  Since you are in control of your thoughts, choose to make the story a good one - a positive one - one that puts you in a better frame of mind and puts the other person in a good light - or at least one to be sympathized with.  Put the best construction on everything.  You&#039;ll be much happier.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Everytime you ASSUME someone&#8217;s intention, you are just making up a story about the &#8220;WHY&#8221;.  Since you are in control of your thoughts, choose to make the story a good one &#8211; a positive one &#8211; one that puts you in a better frame of mind and puts the other person in a good light &#8211; or at least one to be sympathized with.  Put the best construction on everything.  You&#8217;ll be much happier.</p>
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		<title>By: Generate Huge Profits With Social Media Marketing</title>
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		<dc:creator>Generate Huge Profits With Social Media Marketing</dc:creator>
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		<description>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Hillingdon Mediation, ken AA. ken AA said: Be The Best You: Effective Communication Skills: You Don&#039;t Know Until You Ask : Guy ... http://bit.ly/aAWMUE [...]</description>
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