My anger was rising. Every time he spoke, I grew more frustrated and irritated. I could feel my blood pressure rising, my face flushing, my lips tightening, and my shoulders hunching forward. I knew … [Read more...]
The ABC’s of Life: Be Kind
What a simple concept, and it is so often violated. It does not seem that being kind should be difficult. Yet, I see examples of unkindness all around me. Parents yelling at their kids. Kids … [Read more...]
Intentions – A Poem That Came to Me While Cleaning
I don't know why this came to mind, but it did. I was helping my wife clean our living room, and I was, as I often am, thinking about what I could write here. I was not thinking about my wife, my … [Read more...]
Why You Might Eventually Do Something You Don’t Want to Do…
... And What You Can Do About It Have you ever told yourself that you wouldn't do something? Maybe you said you wouldn't eat too much at a party. Maybe you told yourself that you wouldn't speak too … [Read more...]
DISC Model FAQ’s: Is Changing Your Behavior Phoney?
Guy Answers the Question:Is Changing Your Behavior Phoney? As I teach, train, and coach using the DISC model, people hear me say that I encourage them to change their behaviors to fit the situation … [Read more...]
Resolving Conflict Lesson: Watch Your Step
When it comes to conflict, none of us is immune to our emotional triggers. Just yesterday, I had an interchange with someone close to me (not in my family, but still close) that didn't go very … [Read more...]
